…“I received a phone call from the coroner’s office,” Martinez said, her eyes full of tears…The woman then told Martinez that her daughter had taken her own life the night before. “
That’s a snippet from a much longer post at The Daily Signal about a mother losing her daughter as a Govt school first took her daughter and changed her into a boy and then moved her daughter out of her house with very restrictive visitation rights.
Again, the assumption was that this Mom, Abby Martinez, would cause her daughter to kill herself over transitioning. That says to me, “We don’t believe you love your daughter enough to keep her alive.” They even told Mom precisely that.
And then she killed herself anyways. Blame it on the Government schools. Here’s more with my emphasis (reformatted):
Yaeli had struggled with depression since her early teens. When she entered high school, her mother said, Yaeli befriended another girl who identified as a boy and suggested to Yaeli that the reason for her depression might be that she was actually a boy.
So this high school kid has a Ph.D. in clinical psychology? No, of course not – but this is a case of ROGD (Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria) where it is peer pressure that makes the change in young teens to believe that they are something that they are not and if they “become a boy,” all their problems would just disappear. How’d that work out, eh?
And the school system played right along:
…Yaeli attended an LGBTQ club at school that affirmed her questioning of her gender. Her counselor at school also affirmed her decision to begin socially transitioning from female to male.
I’ve already posted about teachers looking to turn/groom kids to become gay or transgender several times. Here’s one more example except this one ends in tragedy. I hope it ends up in a large settlement from lawsuits all the way around. And Mom was never in the loop
“I don’t know if the schools, they supposed to let us know what’s going on or not, but they never send me any note about telling me, ‘We need to talk about your daughter,’” Martinez, who is originally from El Salvador, said.
There they go again – Policy JBAB – Transgender and Non-Conforming. Districts giving themselves the Power to lie to Parents by omission or commission. Districts telling parents that THEY no longer matter – in fact, you parents, YOU are the problem (at least according to the school staff that “educated” that little girl that her Mom hated her):
…Martinez recalls taking her daughter out to eat and asking her to share what was really going on in her life. Yaeli told her mom: “I don’t want to talk about it because you guys are not going to be supportive.”
And the Government agreed – and look at the last line from CA’s version of NH’s DCYF:
When Yaeli was 16, she moved out of her mother’s home. Because Martinez expressed concerns over her daughter’s “transitioning” to a boy, Yaeli’s school psychologist recommended that she would be better off living away from home. Martinez lost custody of her daughter to the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services.
So Government not only groomed Yaeli to distrust her Mom, Government fulfilled what many of us hold (because we believe our lyin’ eyes) – the Proper Role of Government is now to separate children from their parents because of WrongThink. Identity Politics trumps biology. Government “caring” trumps a Mother’s love.
Martinez says she was allowed to visit her daughter for one hour a week. After six months, she got two hours.
The logic of the Department of Children and Family Services was that “if we keep [Yaeli] out of your home, she [will] have more chance to survive,” Martinez recalled. “She’s not going to try to commit suicide.”
Simply for questioning simple biology. NOWHERE ELSE, no ONE else talked about the depression that started this off. And for all of the assurances of first the school and then CFS, it ended badly:
…Martinez watched as her daughter struggled to find happiness and relief from her depression. “She was taking the [cross-sex] hormones; she was not happy. She changed her name, [but] was not happy,” Martinez said. “She adopted a dog because that was going to make her happy. None of it, everything that they’ve done, didn’t work.”
…She learned that her daughter had knelt on railroad tracks and raised her hands toward the sky as a train approached.
I dryly note that Identity Politics took over the LA County Department of Children and Family services when asked for a comment:
We extend our deepest condolences to the family and friends of Andrew M., as well as to the LGBTQIA community which advocates relentlessly to protect its youngest and most vulnerable members from such tragedies.
It’s clear what the Democrat / Progressive Political Group Totem Pole has families – at the bottom. That comment ALSO shows where the true sorrow is for this Government agency – not with the family but with a “community”. Yeah, absolutely rubbish. That “community” caused the problem and then did nothing to protect that young girl from killing herself. Govt fought for THEM and not for Mom and her family.
Politics trumped Family. How’s THAT gonna turn out in the end, eh?
What they ARE doing is protecting themselves and their victimhood status as a marginalized “community.” That freely decided that their identity also trumped the need to get that girl the help she needed with the root cause – depression.
And for any of you who are going to try to take me on over that statement, make my day. I spent over 30 years dealing with depression illnesses (and ADHD – such a combo, along with a lot of other mental illness acronyms) with TMEW, the Eldest, and the Youngest. While I don’t know the sadness of Abby Martinez losing her daughter twice over, I lived the horror and sadness and feelings of “what can I do? I can’t fix them!” for years.
Fortunately, we got through it mostly, and they are doing better. But Government and a school district painted (in the verbiage of the day) Abby Martinez as “an oppressor” towards her “oppressed” daughter. And then, IMHO killed Yaeli.
Now tell me – who is the oppressor in this case? Mom?
Absolutely not.
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